How to Be Assertive Without Being a Bully

Learn how to communicate assertively, give constructive feedback and manage performance without bullying or intimidating colleagues.

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Surgery can be a highly demanding environment, and in pressurised situations we need to prioritise patient safety. Under these circumstances there is a need for clear leadership, but being assertive can sometimes be challenging without coming across as aggressive or intimidating.

Training is also an area in which potential issues could arise. Not every trainee will develop at the required rate, and it is important to be able to address concerns with an individual without fearing being labelled as a bully.

The following recommendations may help with workplace relationships.


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